IDENTITY: Who You Are vs. Who You’re Becoming
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Right now, if someone asked the people closest to you to describe you in 5 words, what would they say? (Not what you hope they'd say but what they'd actually say.)
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A year from now, after doing this work, who are you? Write 3–5 sentences. Paint the picture. What’s different about how you show up?
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What story about yourself have you been telling that needs to end? The “I’m not good at…,” “I always…,” or “People like me don’t…” story that’s been running your life.
DISCIPLINES: What You Do When No One’s Watching
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What does your morning look like right now? Don’t clean it up. Just tell me what actually happens from the moment you wake up.
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Name 3 habits you have: 1 that’s clearly helping you, 1 that’s clearly hurting you, and 1 you’re not sure about.
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When you’re operating at your best, what are you doing that you’re not doing now? Think about your last great day or week. What was different?
EXECUTION: How You Move (Or Don’t)
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What’s the thing you keep meaning to start but haven’t? The project, conversation, change, launch… whatever keeps getting pushed to “next week.”
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When something goes sideways, what’s your default response? Do you pivot, freeze, blame, or something else? Give me a recent example.
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What pattern keeps repeating when you try to make progress on something important? Not just what goes wrong but the pattern behind it.
ACCOUNTABILITY: How You Keep Promises
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On a scale of 1 to 10, how good are you at keeping promises to yourself? Be honest. Then tell me why you gave yourself that number.
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What kind of accountability actually works for you? Think about when someone has successfully held you accountable. What did that look like?
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Who in your life sees your potential clearly, not just your current reality? If no one comes to mind immediately, that tells us something important.
THE REAL WORK: Why This, Why Now
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What truth about yourself are you finally ready to face?
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What would it mean for your faith, relationships, or leadership if you showed up with full integrity every day?
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What’s one fear you haven’t voiced but need to name before you start this work?
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“I’ll know I’ve changed when I stop ____________ and start ____________.”
